Hey,
I can't reply to your pm, I still need to reach 5 posts...
I only have the Male post, and I haven't seen very many female posts around.
Also I just ordered a replacement bezel insert form yobokies, dagaz used to have them as well but they are now discontinued. I don't think you can go wrong with yobokies though.
Good luck with the parts search, I know only too well how hard it gets to obtain those last few pieces....