The 1st thing I would like to say is that I encourage you to strive for a BMBY aka bimby birth year and birth month Seiko diver

Why not, since we can date most references to both month and year. I used to be in love with mid size divers back when i weighed under 150lbs and had a smaller wrist

both of my adult Sons have small wrists and while my older Son will even wear a Tuna my younger Son prefers 38mm or smaller. I bought him a 6458 and when reading up about the reference I just grew to love it more and more. The 6458 was Seiko's 1st ever midsize dive watch, like ever, and accepted wisdom is that they added so much extra detailing to the watch thinking they "had to" to make up for it's smaller size

hence the nipple dial and extra case shaping and finishing. I don't think I have a pic of my Son's 6458 next to a 7548 but the finishing differences are super obvious. I cannot recommend this model more but with the caveat that gaskets and crystals are not super easy to come by, especially compared to it's bigger 7548 brother. I really like all of Seiko's mid size divers, I just don't like wearing them anymore on my now 185cm/7 5/8" wrist 🤪
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I have already given my Son the 6458 and my SKX013, this pic is pre-servicing
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the next one I plan to give him is this SKX025j which is a bit smaller than the 013 at 37mm and much thinner and lighter since it is not a tsunami backed 200m diver.
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I would skip the 4205 reference but that is just my preference after having one, tons of AM in it.
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I am on the hunt for a nice example of the SBCM025 perpetual to give to him, it is I think the epitome of Seiko mid size divers. Good luck with your search